Having a crush on someone can be quite a painful thing to deal with. If the person you are crushing on does not even know you exist then it is one thing. But if you know the person and they are sending you signals that they could be interested in you, but you are not too sure, then that can be even worse. Should you make a move? Or wait for them to? Truth be told, it’s a tough thing to judge, but today we are looking at some tell-tale signs that they may have feelings for you.
The Obvious Tell-Tale Sign : They Come Out & Say They Like You
Now this may seem weird, but sometimes we are so nervous and we have our detective hats on trying to find little clues to see how they feel about us, that we totally ignore the obvious signs with the most clear one being them actually saying that they like you. If a person actually comes out and says that they like you and you do have some chemistry with them, then do not just brush it off as them saying you are “friends” chances. They are in the same boat as you and wanting you to make the first move.
Another Tell-Tale Sign : They Keep Asking Questions
If you are with or talking to your crush and they seem to be talking at a rapid pace and trying their very best to keep the conversation going asking what seems like pretty pointless questions. They are clearly doing this because they want to talk to you and be next to you and they are doing whatever they can to keep the conversation going… Even if this means saying weird things. It’s up to you though to gage the questions. If they causal drop a “hey, how you doing, where are you from again?” then they really may just be being polite, but it’s when they start asking all kinds of random questions you can be sure they have at the very least a small interest in you.
One More Tell-Tale Sign : The Classic Leaning In
Talking to you is one thing, but also be on the lookout for their body language. It’s one thing to be sitting or standing there talking. But when they are clearly leaning into you, hanging on your every single word then you know that they have an interest in you. Someone who has no real romantic feelings for you will not be going out of their way to hang on your every word. So if they are leaning in make sure you are engaging and try to reel them in.
Tell-Tale Sign : They Approach You
If you are in a bar, club, gym, book store or wherever it is you and your crush seem to be at the same time and they come up to you. Then boom, you clearly have caught their eye and you should start to make the ground work to get to know them better. Think about it, if you are in a public place and they come up to you and start up a conversation or even give you a hello and a smile. Then they clearly at the very least must be interested in you.
Tell-Tale Sign : They Act A Little Different Around You
If you work with someone or you are already friends with your crush and you know them fairly well and how they act around others. But when it is just you and them together they are acting a little different, then you know something must be up. They are clearly trying to see what is the best way to catch your eye and make you in fact interested in them!
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