Player, womanizer, cheater or whatever you want to class him as. If a guy is up to no good it can be very hard to catch him, call him out on it, dump his cheating butt and move on with your life. But what are the signs that he is seeing other women? Well you need to have a little look down below to see some of the most obvious signs that his eye is looking elsewhere!
He Only Is Interested In You When You Are There
When he is with you he is all over you, cuddles, kisses and everything else! Telling you how much that he cares about you all the time. But when the two of you are apart you never hear from him. No texts to say hey how are you doing or enquiring about your day even a simple “I love You” text message. It’s as if you do not exist when the two of you are not together. Just think, it’s a bit weird how when you are together he is all over you, but when apart he makes no effort to contact you at all.
He Does Not Want To Tell People About Your Relationship
If he says that he loves you and that he really cares about you then why on earth is he not willing to go “public” with your relationship. Unless he or you have kids there is really no excuse whatsoever that he can possibly give you which would explain why he does not want to tell people you are his girlfriend. The fact of the matter is guys who do not want to tell others they are in a relationship do so because they still have their net out there trying to see who else they can catch!
His Social Network Is “Odd”
Thanks to social networking it can be easier than ever to find out if a guy we are into is looking elsewhere! A good friend of mine was checking her well what she thought was her boyfriend’s profile. Now to be fair she was not stalking him or anything she just wanted to show me some pictures. Her jaw hit the floor when there was all these messages, on his wall not even in his inbox! From various girls he had “hung out with” she felt humiliated, angry and worst of all hurt. But she ended the relationship right there as he clearly was not the only girl he was interested in. Some may see it as “stalking” but by checking their social network accounts you can see if they are interested in other women.
He Was “Single” For A Very Long Time!
So you and he get together and he tells you that he has not had a proper girlfriend in ages! This is a bit weird isn’t it? I mean to be fair he could have had other things going on in his life, but for many guys who have not been in a relationship the reason is that they do not want to be tied down and be free to “play the field” so to speak. Will he be willing to stop his player ways now that he is with you?
He Is Overly Flirtatious
Guys check out other woman we all know that and as long as their wandering eye comes straight back to us once that “hot blonde” has walked past we can deal with it. When though he spends a night out gawking at other women and being overly flirtatious, that he just passes of as being friendly. Then he clearly has a lack of respect for you and is possibly looking for other woman!
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